If you’re like most women, you sometimes wish for a guide map to finding love. Why? Because women often find men are incomprehensible, particularly when it comes to what they want in relationships and unless you make immediate changes nothing will ever change.
So, you want to make a man fall in love with you forever? You absolutely can make it happen by applying a few simple tips and tricks. You might be asking this question because you like a guy very much and you are looking forward to him feeling the same for you. He’s the man of your dreams, and you adore him. You want him by your side right now but unfortunately you still don’t have him. You’re willing to do whatever it takes for him to chase you, like you, get attracted to you and fall madly in love with you but it seems this is a huge undertaking for most women.
Here are some common reasons why you may not have found lasting love or marriage… yet. Listen for which statement(s) might apply to you:
- You treat men as if they’re more important or less important than you (both are equally dangerous and produce the same result: he doesn’t feel met)
- You believe someone should love you ‘just the way you are’ instead of seeking a partner who will stand for your greatest self
- You want to be rescued – physically, financially, emotionally, intellectually
- You’re riddled by shame, fear and hopelessness, you think true love is a fantasy that doesn’t exist
- You’re desperately attached to being married with kids by a certain date, and looking for a good enough husband. Being in love is less important than being married
- You’re unwilling to look at your own patterns that interfere with true intimacy
- You’re ashamed of sexuality and have loads of unexplored guilt around it
- You’re disconnected from your feelings & don’t share them openly with yourself or partner
- You’re addicted to control and secretly want to have more power than he does
- You’ve forgotten you’re a Goddess, a Creatrix and a High Priestess deserving of love. If you don’t know you’re a Queen, you’ll never find your King
So What’s Next?
I’ve spoken to thousands of clients over the past 10 years. Most of my psychic consultations are centered around love, relationships, and breakups. Since then I’ve learned a thing or two about what works and what doesn’t. Here are the most effective ways you can easily get a man to fall deeply in love with and STAY in love with you.
1. Always look your best
Men fall in love with what they see. So if you’re not looking your best, how far do you think that’s going to get you? Don’t allow your appearance to let you down, Your appearance can make you win or lose when it comes to dating. To please a man and make him get interested in you, be presentable. Be aware of what you are wearing, whether or not your hair is clean, and if you are dressed appropriately. If you think that a guy should accept you as is and looks should not matter than you’re being naive and delusional. No one is suggesting you get plastic surgery or that you starve yourself think to become a trophy for a man. I just want you to be realistic and take the extra steps to improve your appearance is it is currently lacking. It won’t just get his attention, but it will give you confidence in your daily life and make you feel better about yourself.
So PLEASE remember
Always put your best foot forward. Simply take care of yourself and wear clothes that accentuate your best features. Find out the things he loves and try to do them often. Your guy loves red lipstick? Go out and buy yourself a lovely shade of red and glide it across your lips- he’ll go crazy! Have a man that likes women in cute summer dresses? Buy a couple flowery, cute (and of course short) summer dresses to turn him on.
2. Be a Great Listener
Women aren’t the only ones who like to talk for long periods of time, get their feelings out, or simply have a nice conversation. Men like it too, and nothing makes someone feel worse than talking to someone who isn’t listening to them- which really implies they don’t care. If you want your man to fall in love with you, pay attention to him. Listen to him when he wants to talk, and be there for him- even when the conversations are repetitive or boring. He needs an ear to listen, you should be the one with open ears ready for whatever he needs to say. You never know, the next conversation might be the time he expresses his love for you.
3. Keep him close by
You see him once, and think he’s cute. See him twice, and you smile at each other. See him a third time, and you’ll want to say hi. This is the basic idea behind the attraction theory of proximity.
“We like familiarity,” Fanelli says. “If you’re attracted to something, the more often you see it, the more attracted you’ll become.”
In one study of a 320-person dormitory, students evaluated their ‘liking’ of peers. The study found that students liked better those who were near them physically (closer on floors, or had rooms nearby). Dormcest ring a bell?
How to make it work:
Similarity may also play a role here. Wherever you meet him, the gym, the library, or class, if you both frequent the same spots, you’re likely to run into each other again. This also means, if you hit it off one night, make sure to let him know you want to hang out again, since, (now we know!) the more you see each other, the more likely you are to fall for him, and him for you! But, no, please don’t stalk him.
4. Listen, Don’t Just Talk!
When you want to please and make a man fall for you it is important that you listen. Don’t just talk. If you chatter incessantly when you are nervous, find some other way to cope with your nerves.
Many girls make the mistake of talking more than they listen when they are around a potential male partner. Girls aren’t the only ones, of course. Many men do the same thing. But this is a big mistake that can easily cost getting the man of your dreams.
Even a man who is generally not talkative will definitely have something to say. Everyone likes to be ‘heard’. If you keep talking and talking all the time without giving him the chance to express himself, he’s likely to be disappointed. Making it hard for him to get a word in could lower your chances of him falling in love with you.
5. Show Confidence
Unless your dating a caveman who wants you to be seen but not heard , always remember having confidence about yourself is key. Sure, some women seem to make a career out of catching men by playing the victim, or the helpless female. But have you ever noticed how those seemingly helpless souls who catch men by being so ‘needy’, actually set their trap with confidence and precision?
Without confidence, you risk being left behind. If you want a guy to like you, you need to have a sense of confidence in yourself that will ultimately make you approach him without fearing or sensing any danger.
Like yourself, and it makes it easy for him to like you too. You’re a good person, a nice person, with very special qualities. Be confident that you are worthy of being loved!
6. Work your eye contact
It’s been seen that romantic eye contact can actually make two people fall in love with each other in no time. The next time you’re having a conversation with him, stare deeply into his eyes as he talks to you. You can smile or flirt, but every time your eyes meet, let the eye contact linger even if both of you aren’t exchanging words. It makes the guy feel warm and fuzzy, and would definitely stir his heart.
7. Don’t always agree with him
Compatibility is of great essence in a happy relationship. But you don’t always have to accept what the guy says or do what he wants to do. Sometimes, a minor disagreement can take him off guard, but it’ll make him respect your opinions a lot more.
Remember, a man likes to flirt with a fun girl and have a serious conversation with an intellectual girl. Give him the best of both worlds, and seriously, how can he not fall in love with you?!
8. Be Independent
Miss Independent is the one that can make him go out of his mind! A lot of women are used to being told that playing the helpless damsel in distress is a surefire way to keep him on his toes. Although this can work in the beginning it can also be a downer and make a guy feel like he has to always be your savior and that gets old very quick. There’s nothing more enticing than a girl who knows who she is, and doesn’t need anybody’s confirmation or approval. She knows what she wants, how to get it and is never needy or clingy. This is the type of girl that’s going to drive him crazy. She’s strong, doesn’t rely on anyone and he’s hooked. There’s just something about the fact that she doesn’t need him, but chooses him that’s enough to make any man fall madly in love.
9. Leave Him Wanting More
Always leave him wanting more! Guys like to fight to get what they want. The chase is fun for them, and that’s what makes them appreciate it more when they get it. That’s just how it is. So, if he gets all of you on a plate and if you make it perfectly clear that he’s the one you want he’s going to know he has it easy. And easy isn’t going to make him go crazy. What is going to make him eat from the palm of your hand is you giving him your affection bit by bit. Make him feel like he has to work for it.
10. Be Totally Unpredictable
Predictable is boring. It’s routine, it’s easy. Unpredictable girls, who now how to stir things up are definitely going to catch some attention. When I say ‘stir things up’ I simply mean step out of the ordinary once in a while. Trust me, he’s going to lose his mind if you go and do something that’s completely out of the norm.
The most important thing is that you are still being you, you’re just showing him the other side – don’t try to be something you’re not just to impress a guy! If you do it right he’s definitely going to want to see more of what you have to offer!