If you’re over the age of 20 — and you haven’t been living with your head in the sand — it should come as no surprise that some men cheat. Whether it’s the President of the United Sates, a beloved church pastor, the top golfer in the world or a world class musician, it’s a proven fact that when it comes to cheating on their spouses, some men just can’t keep it in their pants.
Simply put, those are the guys to stay away from! No matter how good looking they are, how great they are in bed or how much you think they will change once they are with you, the sad fact is that they likely won’t. As your sweet wise grandmother always used to say: “A leopard doesn’t change his spots.”
Infidelity carries a scent. It lingers around a person. It colors your behavior in such a way that your partner can’t help but notice something’s changed.
Certain signs of infidelity are clear: lipstick on the collar, smell of perfume and Sunday-night business meetings. But there are less-obvious characteristics that almost all cheaters share. Do one or two of these a cheater make? Not necessarily. But if the below rings true about your guy and your instincts tell you something’s not right, you might want to check that collar. If your man or woman is a serial cheater; they will SHOW YOU.
Signs You’re Dating a Serial Cheater
He’s selfish and self-obsessed.
Guys who cheat do so because they are only focused on one thing — themselves. The good news is that guys like these are easy to spot. Guys who are selfish and self-indulgent tend to be like that in all aspects of their lives. If you want to get a good gauge of the moral character and integrity of the man you are dating, look at the way he lives his life and the way he treats others. If you start noticing that he is only out for himself, and he obviously doesn’t care about others (including you) aside from what they can do for him, there is only one thing you should do — run!
Was he never particularly absentminded before? Cheaters commonly pretend to forget things they’re actually pretty sure of. Rather than mix up your details with hers, he may find it safer to “forget” your favorite restaurant or even your birthday. If he asks lots of questions he should know the answer to—like wanting to know which movie you’re seeing when you’ve told him twice—reply with a question of your own. “Labor Day—remember, you said you’d let me have my chick flick this time?” If his response is akin to a student stammering when called on unexpectedly in class, keep your eyes peeled for other clues.
He is extremely charming and chivalrous
Serial cheaters are charmers; they know all the ways and moves to attract women. The kind of image they create becomes irresistible for women. If he is a serial cheater he’ll treat women with all respect and give them so much of importance and attention that he’ll seem like a dream boy. They are also huge flirts. They need validation from the opposite sex and they need to feel desired by the opposite sex. They often see any flirtatious exchange no matter how small, as an invitation for more. Ironically, it’s not so much that they have huge egos, as it is that they lack self-esteem. Many times they will flirt in front of you as if it’s harmless fun.
The Way They Were Raised
Cheaters often grew up in families were cheating occurred or a parent was disrespected in some other way. I’m not saying that cheating is genetic, just pointing out that if a person grew up in a cheating or otherwise disrespectful environment, then this behavior is all they know or have to model their own behavior after, making them a little more inclined to believe that cheating is a normal, acceptable behavior.
Cheaters are typically very jealous
A person who cheats is constantly questioning you and frequently accusing you of inappropriate behavior or being flirtatious. The very fact that they are capable of being unfaithful puts them on the defensive and paranoia sets in. If they are doing it, they assume their partner must be doing it also. They are so deep into their life of lies and deception that insecurity sets in and they begin to accuse you of not only cheating, but lying, flirting etc.
You have a right to know. Keep asking until you are satisfied with the answer. Allowing yourself to be in the dark only puts a dark cloud over the entire relationship. Need some answers about your current relationship? Take a chance and try a custom psychic reading with Emily right now! Fill out the contact form below or shoot me an email!